Slow Progress…..Bad Reactions…..Personal Views.

I only ever met HelenaD twice.

The first time Sam brought her to the Pen for me to meet her, and that didn’t go down very well.

I reacted badly to the fact that Sam wanted a Mistress here. I briefly said Hi and walked away with Sam on my tail, understandable not very happy with me.

Now i am going to pause here to say what my personal views are on this subject.

I had this thought in my head when I first came to SL that if someone was a Dominant, then that’s all they should be, not be someone elses submissive.

Remember this was my first real experience of a D’s relationship and I thought this is how things worked. Subs were submissive and Dominant’s were strictly dominant, and if you took that role then that was how you reacted.

Basically I was very naive on how the BDSM population worked in SL. It’s like an endless chain. The sub has a Mistress, who herself has a Mistress, who then may further have a Mistress herself or basically will sub to others, etc etc etc.

I have, too this day, hardly ever met a Dominant that has not either been, a sub to another and is owned by them, been a sub early on in her life here, subs to random others in general play or has an ALT that is a submissive in that life.

There seems very few exceptions to this.

There is a general concensus that you must have to have been a submissive to be a good dominant.

Do you really have too? I mean is it written in stone that this is the by law in BSDM?…….I don’t think so.

So what are we left with?……….basically a world of switches.

There is a sim called Domme a Domme.

Now in theory this sounded like an interesting concept. A place that Domme’s could go a test the resolve of another Dominant or get their resolve tested……..Again in theory, this sounded like a concept with a competitive edge to it.

If you actually go there and study what goes on, you will quickly realise that this sim’s title is a pale reflection of what goes on here.

Sure there is a few Dommes that go there, in search for something resembling what the concept offered. But they must be horrified to see how many subs there are there or even worst, subs that are masquerading as dommes, just to get a chance of being so-called broken.

It’s a complete joke!!

What is happened to BDSM in Second Life??

I know over time things change, people change and attitudes change……But has it been for the better??

Does chaos now rules over the scene??……Is it just like one big orgy of switch play??……and then you have to think back and say has it ever really been any different from 4 years ago??

For me, it feels like it has changed from back then. The world seems overrun now with subs pretending to be domme’s just to get that rush of being made to submit…..one more time.

These so-called domme’s seem to collapse with the slightest amount of topping, and in the end it all gets very frustrating and sadly in the long run, it’s putting those of a genuine nature off playing at all.

I understand that these are just my personal views and not the views of the masses.

Please feel free to comment on this subject and share your views.

Sorry to go off the subject matter……I will continue where i left off my story in the next part.

Love, Tyra XXX

Yeah yeah…So I Lost.

Yeah yeah i got my ass kicked!!……She won!…..I lost!……2 weeks as a sub wouldn’t be so bad, would it??

Well  actually it took a week or so for her to persuade me to do my time with Sam. You know it was one of those things that you kept saying you’d get around to but never actually make an effort to do.

Nerves? …..yeah i was nervous, a little.

Excited? ….. yeah that too.

I hadn’t actually ever being someone’s submissive before, even if it was only for a 2 week period.

So she eventually cornered me into starting my time with her, along side doing the quest tasks too. This one task was to be a ponygirl for 2 days, if my memory serves me correct and Dio & Jenny will testify to this, It’s damned hard to be a ponygirl for an extended period!!! Two days are a long, long time to be in such an outfit all the time and in those days most of my spare time was taken up by SL. So i was doing the ponygirl task while starting my two weeks with Sam. She was like my mentor and guide through this and i guess it was then that i began to feel happy with her being in control of me.

Now this was around 4 years ago and it’s hard to think of the actually moment that we decided this was going to be more than a 2 week deal, has per the bet. But I’m sure we both decided to make it permanent before the two weeks were up.

It’s never been easy for me to relinquish control…….to anyone.

So to give it to Sam was a big thing for me,has it must have been for her. I was her first Sub and her first time as a Mistress.

coinciding with this was Sam’s search for a Mistress of her own.

And that came firstly in the shape of HelenaD.

To be continued………………….

4 years old….feels like 90

Actually 4 years 1 month 25 days to be precise. It just seems a lifetime since i joined SL, thinking back to a few of the early memories i have of there.

My friend EmJay first recommended SL to me, so i decided to give it a try. Within one day of joining and going through the whole noobie training Sim, with the block building and a couple of cars parked just as badly as i seen in my local supermarket car park!! ((Keep away from my Porsche!!)) then several minutes of trying to flying around a laid out course and smashing my head in the same concrete slab half a dozen times. I decided SL wasn’t the place for me.

It took a month of coaxing from EmJay to get me to have another go, stating that once i had entered SL itself then i would be hooked. She was right!

She introduced me to Meki, who i instantly hit it off with and still today we are the best of buds. Even when she did take a year out having met her partner here and made a life together.

She also introduced me to camping, and i hated it!! lol I couldn’t believe they would spend hours either sat in one spot, entering a numbered code in local chat every 10 minutes or so, just so they could prove they where still active and earn another 5L!!! But i didn’t have my payment info on record at the time and begrudgingly took part in it ((frowns)) Till i discovered D’s here ((smiles))

Within a month i had discovered a place called Sarah’s Slut Pen ((Lol..Gees!!!)) and the infamous Black Hole Quest!!!!! ((Da Daaaaaa!!!…..scary hey??)) It’s there i met my first like-minded friends, Shinaree, Sam, Dale, Lin and Nano. It was then that the hook fastened in tight enough to never let go!

The Black Hole Quest was great fun and everyone seemed to lining up to play it. Friends competing who could get to the highest levels and actually finish it. It was a great feat to finish the quest and it was worth going through it all again.

It was the beginning of the golden year of RLV. A year that most people involved in D’s wore shackles or police cuffs, daring to risk leaving their keys out, hoping to get a someone nibbling at the bait. More often than not you got some key happy snapper, testing those dangerously unlocked cuffs and away you went!

As you may or may not have noticed, Sarah’s place is where i met Sam for the first time. I had become friendly with her over the first few weeks of going to Sarah’s and of course we both played the quest at the same time. Also at the sim they had the card game. The actual name escapes me but it’s the one that you play higher or lower and the eventually loser as to spin the wheels to decide on their punishment, all good fun!! Well it was this game that brought me and Sam together.

We had a private bet between ourselves that the loser of a game between us would get the other as their submissive for a period of 2 weeks. So if you think about it, the actual outcome could have led to a whole different situation between us than it did.

And actually!!!!

I!!!!!

Won!!!!!!…………….The race up the ramp and into the cage that circled the game and then within 5 minutes i had got my ass kicked!! lol

To be continued…………

Hmmmm…..Errrrr…..Ahhhhh!

Hmmmm….(thinks for a moment)…….Errrr…….(Ponders)…….Ahhhh!!! ((7 Months later))

It wasn’t really an “Ahhhh!!!” as though it was a “Eureka!” moment,  more like another “Hmmm” and a “Sigh”. It was just added it for dramatic effect ((Stares at the audience and raises her eyebrows and shrugs))

Because after seven months i still haven’t found out what to write about on here!

Should i tell my life story, about my life, loves, my friends, my foes, sad times and happy times in Second Life? ((Who is that yawning at the back!!))

Should i bitch about this person and that one? ((Ohhhhhh yes!! oh yes please!!!)) *Gags the sexy lil devil dressed in red latex and flicks off her shoulder*

People in-world that have crossed swords with and lived to tell the tale? ((Okay, okay! So i haven’t told any of those tales yet….I’m typing I’m typing!! God damn it!!))

Should I rant and rave about whats wrong in the world or why do people once gagged talk as if nothing has if nothing as been inserted in that blabbering mouth of their’s in the first place! ((Hmmmm that’s twice i have mentioned gags in the first few sentences)) *Blinks*

Should i talk about Fashion & Style?? Everyone knows i have a fondness for shopping and bargain hunting ((Glances over to her smouldering credit cards, glowing red and an instance from melting and having running liquid plastic ruining her new wooden floor))

Give you my views of places i have been or heard of to visit, or give a view on certain things i have tried and experienced? ((Tyra, don’t mention gags….DO NOT MENTION GAGS!!)) *Takes a deep breath*

Maybe i should just shut the hell up and continue with my Hmmm’ing and Errrr’ing for another 7 months?? ((Shhhhhh Virgo!!))

Well maybe this badly put together, badly written scribble will spar me on to a long and epic journey with interesting stories and swashbuckling adventures galore!!!

…………Then maybe not.

Love T.

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